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Hanging the Boots of Friendship

“The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for.” 
― Bob Marley

Not just Bob Marley but many other renowned personalities have also given their loveable, generous, fascinating views about friendship time to time and we generally find them very interesting. But in reality are you really ready to “suffer” non reciprocally? And more interestingly, how do you know who worth suffering or even more basic who actually is your friend? How do you define or what are your standards for friendship? If I know a person for years, we talk regularly, we care, we talk about world, universe, crushes, may be love, politics, life stories,  incidents, we call each other friends; does that mean we really are friends? It may seems like we are friends because we think that we are doing nearly everything that friends do so the next question; is that person worth my suffering?  If not, then may we need a different parameter for friendship. A wise man has said: “How m…